
Sixteen Year Old Dor Plays Old Lady in On Borrowed Time
This is the story of an old-er lady who is learning to follow needlework patterns and to crochet (or knit) in curves.
Here’s me (Dor) 16 years old, acting in the role of a grandma. It was a play we did in high school called On Borrowed Time. They had to put chalk in my hair and painted in forehead lines to achieve a grandmotherly look (no need for all that now of course and I really am “on borrowed time!”). But as you can see, I was trying to knit even then!
An Old Girl’s Stitching Saga
It is much later but I can finally wield a crochet hook with professional verve. The problem is I only stitch in a straight line. That means a whole lot of scarves. Everybody I know has received a Handmade-by-Dor SCARF (or 2 or 3)! The Oooohs and Ahhhhs are dwindling.
Hoping to finally conquer this Handiwork Handicap, I recently took a Crochet Class at The Stitchin’ Post – in Lexington, Virginia. It was a grandly happy experience!
My new group of young, crafty (no pun intended) knitting friends cheered for my progress on a market bag, and claimed, “You are intermediate material.” As you can imagine, I was feeling pretty smug.
You can do anything now Dor.
You are an “Intermediate.”
You could even make a shawl!
And the experts at The Stitchin’ Post found a pretty shawl pattern for me to try next.
But, even after
- discussion,
- re-instruction,
- ripping,
- reworking,
- ripping,
- reworking,
- and finally ripping, I never got past Row #4.
- Translation: The pattern said “intermediate” but was really “advanced” – right?
HMMMMM.
MAYBE A DIFFERENT PATTERN WOULD HELP.
The ever helpful stitching gurus found a new pattern, this time for beginning intermediates.
And I went home again, still smugly thinking, “What a cinch this is gonna be! They are in for such a surprise!”
The second shawl did grow.
It grew bigger -and bigger- into the upside down shape of a Superman CAPE! Obviously there were some weird mistakes made somewhere.
The rather unfashionable cape was good for Halloween and a lot of laughs from the girls, but o.k.,
I’m all for joy.
So my helpful friend, Dymph, ripped it all out, which left me guess where? With two big balls of yarn.
The dedicated knitting gurus would not give up either, and insisted there would be a finished shawl “no matter what.”
TRIAL NUMBER THREE
This time we added a pointed bottom to the second pattern. Ellie crocheted the first five rows to get it started, and off I went again, thankful for the patience of lovely people, and with only slightly lower personal expectations.
The new piece grew exponentially (I have been looking for a place to use that word), and admittedly, it almost looked like a shawl. Well, almost.
And the Almost-Shawl could only be described as “grossly misshapen.”
Thankfully, my friends at the Stitchin’ Post have never seen this one. (I’m rather sorry I saw it too.)
SELF ANALYSIS AND MUTTERING:
“Maybe it will look better with blocking if I knew how to block.”
“No, it’s too long in back and too short in front.”
“Take a picture of this third attempted shawl for your blog.”
“No, it’s too embarrassing.”
So I ripped it all out and was down once again to the original two balls of yarn (now looking a bit on the tattered side).
UNDAUNTED
TRIAL NUMBER FOUR
Yes, I am still grimly determined to crochet a shawl and now on Row #5 of a new pattern. That is called “one-row-progress”
The goal now is to use up all that stretched, frayed, ripped out yarn. Forget preserving the Intermediate Status.
Happily, the new pattern is for a straight and narrow scarf,
but I will just keep stitching until it looks like a shawl.
I am ashamed, forlorn, and embarrassed, but I will return to the Stitchin’ crowd later to show them the final frayed creation. For now though, I am sticking to the straight and narrow.

Dor on Right – Old Lady Knitting in Play, On Borrowed Time
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