
Dor and Bill Wed
Today is our Anniversary!
Would you believe 61 years?
Posted in Look at This!, Love, Memories, On Aging, tagged Anniversary, memories, Wedding, Years Wed on June 13, 2020| 31 Comments »
Posted in Country Thoughts, Dogs, Family, Food, Homeplace Recipes, Love, Virginia, Visitors, tagged birthdays, Chocolate Cake, Gathering, Grandgirls, Happyy Days, Making Memories, Maltshop Music, Puppy Play, rescue dog, rural Virginia, Sausage Linguini on August 24, 2019| 28 Comments »
There was a gathering last week for (Dad’s/Grampy’s) Bill’s birthday! And our once quiet little house in rural Virginia became a beehive of activity with lots of talking, shouting, and barking from Elsa-the-dog, all vying to be heard to catch up on our lives.
And there was the birthday boy of course. There were MaltShop Music DVDs from the 1950’s as a backdrop. What fun. What memories. A chocolate birthday cake with chocolate icing was a hit too.
I made a new dish for dinner which is now a family fave. It is called Sausage and Linguine. Basically it is just that with a few other things like red peppers. It was a major hit though. Nothing like a recipe with 5 or less ingredients.
Elsa Loves Son Corky, who managed to actually play with her. Elsa does not know how to play. She runs away from squeaky toys (afraid they are crying and hurt), will not fetch a ball or play tug-o’-war either. Sad. But she loves Corky. He treats her like a puppy, challenges her by showing and hiding treats and and Elsa wags her tail and acts much like a puppy even though she is 7 years old now.
It was a lovely day for Bill’s birthday with calls and cards, and gifts and lots and lots of love. The GrandGirls left first, returning to D.C., South Carolina and Michigan to resume their busy lives. Then we had time with son Corky and daughter-in-law Emmy – time for shopping, talking, laughing, planning. It was all such fun and we loved every minute, but they are all gone now.
The house is quiet again except for a couple of thunder storms. Elsa is frightened and shaking under my desk at my feet. I’m sure she misses Corky and all the other big humans who were here such a short time ago.
Ditto.
Posted in Family, Graduations, Home and Hearth, Love, Technology, Uncategorized, tagged California, Family Far Away, Graduation, Grandchildren, Handy Man, Help at Home, Sons, Visits on May 7, 2019| 20 Comments »
Corky and Mack
My son is here visiting after the great graduation celebration. It is always wonderful to see him because he lives so far away in California.
This visit is extra special though – 1) because of the graduation, and 2) because we saw all three grandgirls, 3) because Corky extended his stay and we can catch up on his life, and 4) because he is so darned helpful.
All in the space of a few days:
He is our pride and joy anyway, but this visit has to be marked down as special and this is our way of saying “Thank you son. We love you.”
Posted in Critters, Dogs, Family, Humor, Love, tagged Animal Love, BigFoot, Dog Training, family gathering, Human behavior, pets, trust on February 4, 2019| 37 Comments »
As difficult as it is, I now aim for the floor to meet her on her own level. Elsa is our little rescue dog who has been with us for three months.
Getting up from the floor is the challenge of course but Big Foot (swollen foot that is now Slim Foot) is allowing weight bearing moves!
At first Elsa seemed confused and suspicious when I hit the carpet but she decided in two days it might be acceptable (if not alarmingly odd) human behavior.
She comes closer now when I am down there, close enough for a belly rub but not quite near enough for a hug.
We are making slow but positive progress.
Yesterday while Elsa and I were connecting on the floor,
the looming shadow of a man-person emerged.
Gentle Bill wanted to join the party too and was on his way down.
Immediately alarmed, Elsa gave a mighty jump and hit her head on the coffee table. Then she crouched nearby in a terror pose.
She finally realized we humans were down there for family love and noone wanted to hurt her.
She inched closer, sat between us, and rolled over for double belly rubs.
This is true progress because Elsa cringes when we try to pat her head and shows unmistakable signs of previous abuse.
For now, with patience and gentle handling,
Posted in Critters, Dogs, Health, Love, tagged Dogs, ear-rubs, love, Meant-to-Be, physical therapy, Puppies, Russell Terriers, walking on September 20, 2018| 33 Comments »
Russell Terrier
Monday was PT Day. Those are the initials for Physical Therapy of course. I am trying hard to join the current initial-speaking generation whilst also re-learning how to walk.
Anyway, believe it or not (and I can’t believe it myself), I saw a wonderful thing when entering the Physical Therapy center.
I saw a beautiful, sweet little DOG!
And although I didn’t have the nerve to take a photo, please
picture this:
She (the dog) was stretched out on her Mistress’ stomach and looked up when I walked in (the dog – not the lady). Then she stared at me (the dog) and I stared at her until we both got tired of looking. Actually I never tired of looking but while awaiting my turn with the therapist I pretended to read a magazine but kept sneaking looks at the amazing little creature.
At the end, they put the little dog down on the floor and she came right over to me for a greeting, an ear rub, and immediate love!
Birdie is a Russell Terrier, a derivation of the Jack Russell. These are very active hunting dogs but the “Russell” (minus the Jack) is breeder-described as a couch potato!
Now I ask you, “Is this meant to be?”
I will know in about two weeks.
Posted in Beauty, Friends, Love, Memories, Out of Town, People, tagged Bride, Georgetown DC, Marriage, Mother and Father of the Bride, Old Friends, Royal Wedding, Washington Dc, Weddings, Windsor on May 21, 2018| 17 Comments »
This was another wedding yesterday, May 19, 2018.
It was the same day as the actual Royal Wedding at Windsor of Prince Harry to Meghan Markle, but this event was in Georgetown, District of Columbia, U.S.A.
And it was the almost royal wedding of our little friend, Suzanne (half English) to the enormous love of her life, sweet Michael. Suzanne is a grownup now of course, but we met her when she was born.
Her Mom is from England (of the sweet, elegant, but lots of fun variety) and her Dad was an all American boy who spread his delightful brand of happiness all the way across the ocean and back to our house in rural Virginia.
The wedding was spine-tingling and tear provoking, just the way a true-love marriage should be.
Suzanne’s Mom walked her down the aisle because unfortunately, her Dad had passed away. How Terry would have loved to see Suzanne find such happiness, and to have the ceremony there in his favorite church!
One giggling moment was when Michael tried to put the wedding ring on the bride’s right hand! That makes him “ours” for sure and something to share laughter about in later years.
No, I did not get to see the big royal wedding at Windsor, but this more than special occasion was a deeply meaningful, exceedingly joyful, Almost Royal Wedding that may have been was even better!
Posted in Daily Prompt, Family, February Perspectives, Humor, Love, tagged back seat driver, Cheese, Compromise, Daily Prompt, Dinner, Humior, lifestyle, Marriage, reflections, Relationships, Technology, temperature on February 20, 2018| 14 Comments »
Compromise: I do not cook with cheese, except for myself or if I am craving Mac n’ Cheese, we eat out.
Compromise: It’s always a little too warm for me in here, but a little too cool for him.
Compromise: I make little noises and white knuckle the hand grip. I think he sees all that with his great peripheral vision. If none of that works, I gasp out loud.
Compromise: We have separate viewing rooms and meet between films.
Posted in About Me, Country Thoughts, Daily Prompt, Family, Love, Memories, Uncategorized, tagged American, Dad, European, Lectures, love, old fashioned, old world, Self image, wisdom on February 14, 2018| 30 Comments »
I am back in time, a teenager again with the power to tune Dad out.
He was “old world” old fashioned you know. Out of date.
He was a European immigrant who became a naturalized American citizen and he created a life and a family in the country of his dreams
And when I was a teenager I could fool him into thinking I was always listening to his words of wisdom.
“Don’t overstay your welcome Darling,” he would say when I was to spend part of a summer with my Aunt and Uncle and young cousins.
“After 3 days, company smells like dead fish,” he said. (What he was really saying was he would miss me terribly.)
There are more words of wisdom of course, and I hope to remember and record them all.
For as old fashioned and out of date as Dad was, the great part is his lectures always began and ended with love.
Posted in Country Thoughts, Humor, Love, Technology, tagged Birthday Gift, Cell Phones, encouragement, Help with Technology, Hi Bixby, Love/Hate, Relationships, Samsung Galaxy S8, support, teachers on October 28, 2017| 14 Comments »
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There was a time when I loved without question and learned to live with all the idiosyncrasies of the recipient of my love.
I persevered and loved out of purity and ignorance.
Eventually I complained bitterly at every opportunity and all my friends knew I wanted “out” of the relationship.
This misery and resentfulness went on for 3 years!
And I wound up hating the same old cell phone more and more.
Two days ago I was given a brand new Samsung Galaxy S8 cell phone. And Wow!
I am so impressed with the hidden person inside and I know I will never be alone again.
It is a highly personal interactive little gadget that offers options I have never seen before.
And with a masterful teacher (my son) who launched me on my way through adapting to yet another mystery of the technological age, I am once again, in love.
I LOVE MY SAMSUNG GALAXY S8! THANK YOU FOR THE GIFT OF LOVE FOR MY BIRTHDAY BILL. AND THANK YOU FOR THE GIFT OF LOVE FOR MY BIRTHDAY SON!
Ummmmm……. I do need a little help with a few little issues though……
Like why isn’t the darned thing responding to my thumb on the keyboard? I still have to hunt and peck with my index finger! Grrrrrr!