Some eons ago, when I was a little girl my parents took us kids out for Sunday drives. Those were always exciting times with donuts as the grand finale.
My parents are long gone, but some of those sweet memories resurface, especially since there has been ample time to reflect on past pleasures.
Nowadays Bill takes Elsa-the-dog and me for “rides in the car.” I think he thinks we need a change of scene and he is so right. These outings expand our world beyond the walls that bind us since Bill and I are among the most vulnerables to the Corona Virus.
Elsa gets beyond excited when we ask, “Wanna go for a ride in the car?” She dashes back and forth barking and whining and eagerly jumps in. But the sad thing is, Elsa does not know how to enjoy life as a dog. She immediately hunkers down as if to hide from imminent danger, rarely looks out the window, and shakes and shivers with her head in my lap no matter where we may wander.
Because she is so frightened I ride in the back seat with her, and off we go, with Bill as the Chauffeur.
Elsa does sit up but only if the car stops. That gives her a window view of sorts with glimpses of an alien world fraught with terror.
- Sometimes Bill stops at an ATM machine and when he gets out, Elsa goes mad with worry – crying and howling in despair that we have lost a pack member to the insane outside world
- The parking lot of Walmart is always interesting too. We went there to see if the GoodWill drop was still open (and it was). Elsa began whining in anticipation of further pack loss, but we had not brought our donations and we all stuck together inside the relative safety of the car.
- The Sheetz gas station is colorful too and very scary indeed. Last time we were there a mask-less fellow was filling up next to us, right by my open window. Suddenly he began yelling at a friend who was some distance away. Being Covid-19- paranoid I feared I might contract the virus from his unmasked yelling vapors (so I held my breath)! I wonder why the CDC has not recommended holding your breath as a preventative measure.
- Another time we drove to Buena Vista (the nearest little town) and we saw whole families out walking with little kids skipping alongside. None of them were wearing masks either (not the parents, kids or dogs) but they were single family units out in the fresh air. It was a heartwarming slice of Americana but maybe Elsa has the right idea about hunkering down and avoiding even looking out the window.
- And our last ride in the car was around our own neighborhood where we saw a new neighbor’s house being built – a lovely A-frame log home atop a hill.
We are hoping Elsa will become accustomed to our outings and will some day enjoy the wind in her hair and the sights (other than a yelling man and an ATV machine) through the window.
In any case, I will remember these precious times, these spontaeous rides, these family/pack trips during a serious pandemic. They were Bill’s idea for a change of scene that has now become a happy tradition.
How about you?
Wanna go for a ride in the car?
We used to go for Sunday drives (and sometimes picnics) when I was a kid, too. My sibs and I would argue over who got to sit next to the window or in the way back of the station wagon. 😀
Just like you, we get a bit stir crazy staying at home most of the time and taking a drive (with Wren, who does love the wind in her fur) gives us a break from the routine.
Last night we thought we’d try going for an ice cream. We drove 20 minutes to get there but the parking lot was full and the line 6 feet apart snaked a long way. We drove away, I just couldn’t do it, and went to a convenience store and bought sugar cones and ice cream to have at home. Sigh. Well, at least we got out. 😉
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Our Sunday drives always ended at the A&W root beer stand, or just occasionally at the Dairy Queen. My preference was a root beer float with a breaded pork tenderloin sandwich, but I usually had to make do with only the float.
I still love a ride in the car today — and not just a ride, a trip. There still are a lot of places I want to go!
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I’m glad y’all get out for car rides occasionally.
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Hi Dora, That’s about as far as we get i.e. walks with Koko which fortunately he loves, and shopping Like you Dora John and I are vunarable with regard to the coronavirus and always wear masks where so many are not . This I find annoying because they are not thinking of others especially all those wonderful people working hard in order to help save lives. I hope Elsa soon enjoys her outings in the car. Stay safe
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As a family we would go for a Sunday drive and then have an ice cream sundae. My mother loved to walk in old cemeteries. Poor Elsa. How sad her background must have been to be that fearful after spending time in your home. Is there anything you can give her to calm her down. She is missing so much. Poor pup.
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I love this. That wonderful husband of yours knows just how to keep his wife sane. Now, the dog is another story. Love you all! Julie
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I had Thursday off and drove to the beach ~ the beach was beautiful but I enjoyed the drive nearly as much! Hell yeah I wanna go for a ride in the car … hugs and pets to sweet Elsa girl XX. MJ
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Driving with the beach as your ultimate destination sounds like heaven to me!
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Yep, the dog has us both insane… sleepless 4th of July night coping with Elsa’s terrors and the firecrackers were miles and miles away. Yikes!
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Last night was a nightmare for Elsa since she is terrified of loud noises. Trouble is, these were muffled firecracker pops from a long way away. What will she do in one of our thundrous loud August lightning storms. I plan to ask the vet for tranquilizers.
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Rita, you sound just like Bill. He really gets angry at people who don’t wear masks and seem obliviious to the germs they may be spreading.
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Yes, our little rides serve to remind me there is a “real” world out there with people doing things. 🙂
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On some days like this I am certain we will all be travelling again!
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As for sure and also there is something called a thunder shirt. It’s a dog thing so I’m not familiar with it personally but it helps some dogs. Your vet would know about it. Poor thing. We had fireworks until 6 a.m. here. People are freaking nuts.
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We are on the same wavelength thinking about rides in cars. My dad used to take us all out for a Sunday drive and I hated it! But this week I decided it was imperative to get out of the house for a drive. Thought Dad might be grinning down. Maybe we become like our parents. Hope your doggie settles into the car rides.
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Car rides on Sunday afternoons were a big thing with my folks when I was a child. I remember them fondly. And now, hubby and I are enjoying them more than ever because of this dratted covid-19 thing. Most of our rides are fun with our oldest grandchild in the back seat.
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Sunday drives were special times in our family too and now coming back to look forward to during the pandemic. It is a welcome diversion and I’m glad you and yours are doing it too.
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I think my Dad is looking down too and approving of our Sunday drives. Elsa gets very excited about going but still isn’t sure it is a safe place.
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Thanks Kate. The thundershirt is a grand idea and in fact I got her one some time ago. Since then she has gained 10 lbs from all the cookie bribes we give her – buying her love and trust. So I may have to order her another in Large. 🙂
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That happens.
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