I have a phobia of sorts.
It is shortness of breath when faced with too many choices like shopping in cluttered overstocked stores or having to decide between zillions of television channels
When we were young and living in “remote areas of California” I was happy to do all the shopping at one local general store.
And we didn’t even own a t.v. or a computer or a cell phone.
But there is no accounting for progress.
We moved to the Virginia countryside where life promised to remain simple and uncluttered. There were only three restaurants, no department stores, and no big box stores.
We put an antenna in the attic to get two clear television channels and one fuzzy station and decided we were living in Paradise.
And time marched on.
And suddenly there was a bigger, wider, more enticing world of satellite television with a zillion optional programs.
We were among the first 20,000 people in the United States to have Direct TV. There were no installers then (at least in rural Virginia) so Bill installed everything himself. Imagine the joy in surfing around with a remote thing! And imagine being given a whole menu of options! I could feel my breathing phobia kicking in.
And time marched on.
There is no accounting for progress.
I recently learned how to record t.v. programs for later viewing. For those of you who are still novices like I was, you just push a button that says REC on your remote. I have gone a little balistic with this new power (but symptoms of my short-of-breath-phobia are emerging too).
I have R E C’d enough programs to keep me recliner-chair-bound for the winter.
- The Young Pope is mesmerizing.
- But then Mercy Street is enticing.
- And Victoria is a must.
- I like the History channels.
- And nature things.
- And all those recommendations we get from friends.
- And we currently also have three Netflix discs on standby.
- And I want to get back into blogging.
- And there is so much to do in cyberspace anyway.
Progress? I call it “overkill” and there is simply not enough time in a day anymore.
Do I want to go back to three channels on the t.v.? No.
Well maybe 10 or 20 options max?
As for shopping I sometimes yearn for the good old days.
A visit to Ernie’s General Store in Hayfork, California sounds good, simple, easy. I could get paint, gifts, clothing, hardware, and maybe even a television set – all in one place. Those were the days when we rented a trailer from Ernie and it was in his back yard! That was when we were young and living in the wilder more remote places of California. It is now many decades later and there is no accounting for progress. I recently heard Ernie’s store was for sale. I wonder if it is still there.

Ernie’s Department Store Hayfork, California
They call it ‘progress’ but I’m not so sure it is. Sometimes I think it is slowly driving us all mad. 😉
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I am ok with choices when it comes to tv stations, but I am exactly like you when it comes to stores. I get overwhelmed very easily and then end up leaving without buying anything LOL. I feel your pain :).
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That store is a classic!
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Not enough hours in the day–I certainly learned that lesson this week! Oh, it’s only Monday! LOL
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I agree with you one hundred percent, dorann. Too many choices to make, too little time to make them.
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If it weren’t for the internet, I would never have met you. Even though they are frustrating at times, I’m glad I have a computer, a cell phone, a digital camera, and the internet.; I love my new friends here, and I’m always especially glad to see your blog notification pop up. Before WordPress, I read books and practiced the piano. Life is certainly different now.
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It is good to have choice but you do have to make more decisions about what to buy, what to watch, what to eat…
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We have too many choices don’t we Dora. especially the T.V. stations.. I love the History programmes and the National Geographic “Wildlife ” is wonderful.
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More like “has already driven us all mad” Eliza. I arrived there some time ago. 🙂
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O.K. Next time you come on down south we will have to go shopping in the small stores in town….
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It really is/was classic. I remember a table top with sweaters for men. The only choice was color. I bought a blue one for Bill, and a maroon one for my brother. They were good quality good looking sweaters and it was Christmas shopping simplified. Loved it.
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🙂 I am not alone!
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You are so right Anne! The real pleasure in all this mad technology is in meeting and making new and wonderful friends. 🙂
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I know. 😦 I think my real problem is in making decisions! 🙂
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Agreed Rita… and nice to know if you come to visit we will both enjoy watching the same programmes. 🙂
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I don’t know how we ever got along without our DVR, Dor. We never watch commercials any longer…YAY!
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We downgraded our cable because there were just too many “choices” on there and we didn’t even watch a quarter of them. Oh, yes, we’re watching Victoria too. Love it!
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Simplicity sounds enticing with no constant political updates!
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I often think of how different my life is from my mother’s. Her telephone was tethered to the wall. No microwave or dishwasher or on-line anything. Most of her life she hung her laundry outside. Her washing machine had a wringer. No computers. Trips to the bank with a line waiting. I don’t want to go back to those days but I do long to go back to my innocence.
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Sounds good to me :).
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I might need a new axe. Bahahahaha!!
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🙂 Some things just make perfect sense!
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Bill keeps all those Direct TV channels on the off chance we might wander into something good. Ha! 🙂
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Cause for celebration to miss the political diatribes.
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I remember my Mom with the wringer washer. She was terrified I would get fingers caught as I “helped” her with the wash. I didn’t have a microwave either for years (fought the whole concept).
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I can sharpen an old one here! 🙂 Teehee.
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Haha!
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Having grown up in the country I so relate to this – and since I travel a lot for work – do you know where I stop for lunch? Little local cafes or diners – where the local old guys are there having coffee & advising world leaders on public policy (in their minds anyways). Living in the city I avoid the big box stores and shop (and pay more) at a little local grocery store where I know everyone. Yes we have digital cable TV and a DVR and that’s a fun way to skip commercials but for all of the hundreds of channels I still read more than I watch. Life’s funny like that – the more choices we have the less we sometimes use them.
Mom did get her arm caught in that wringer-washer once and it was a pretty bad injury with skin grafts and such later – we soon got an automatic washer shortly thereafter!
Cheers~ MJ
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Most times I resist eating out alone. When I travelled with work I would order breakfast in the room rather than going down for a meal among strangers. Last week I had breakfast alone at a local diner here in my town and never felt more comfortable. The staff treated me like an old friend and the food was piping hot and delicious.
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Most times I resist eating out alone. When I travelled with work I would order breakfast in the room rather than going down for a meal among strangers. Last week I had breakfast alone at a local diner here in my town and never felt more comfortable. The staff treated me like an old friend and the food was piping hot and delicious.
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